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Creating a safty plan
The only way we can stop the cycle of domestic violence, is to come together and end the silence.

This is a safe space for you to discover how to do that. Your way.

Creating a Safety Plan

If you are in or are planning to leave a violent relationship, it is important to make a safety plan first. You should talk to someone you trust about your plan if possible. 

  • Plan with your children. Identify a safe place for them whether it’s a room with a lock or a neighbour’s house. Let them know that their job is to stay safe; not to protect you.
  • Arrange a signal with a neighbour when you need help.
  • Plan the safest time to get away. Know how you will leave and which doors or windows you will use.
  • Know where you can get help by contacting POWA on 0116424345 for a list of safe spaces near you. If you cannot make time to contact POWA, head over to your nearest South African Police Services station and ask them to contact the relevant NGO or support organisation for help. 
  • Prepare an emergency kit that you can get to quickly. You may need to keep it at a trusted friend’s/neighbour’s house.
  • An extra set of car and house keys.
  • Money or credit card(s).
  • Birth certificates and other ID of you and your children.
  • Driver’s license or other photo identification.
  • Work permit.
  • Health insurance cards and medication for you and your children.
  • Deed or lease to your house or apartment.
  • Any court papers or orders.
  • Change of clothes for you and your children.

2019 Women Against Abuse; https://www.womenagainstabuse.org/get-help/planning-for-safety